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Do Courts Give Mothers Special Custody And Visitation Privileges?
- by Ji Y. Park
While fathers can arguably be just as close to their children as mothers, there is still a prevailing idea in society that moms have a special bond with their children—perhaps as far as interpersonal relationships go, it’s hard to imagine anything closer.
Does a “mom privilege” exist as far as the law is concerned? While every situation is different, the simple answer is no.
The following are some common myths that both moms and dads mistakenly believe exist.

Can Infidelity or Domestic Violence Impact Your Divorce Settlement?
- by Ji Y. Park
Going through a divorce can easily be one of the most difficult times of your life. It’s not easy to change your life so drastically, or go through the process of dividing up assets and deciding how the future will play out. Even if the process is relatively friendly and a mutual decision, transitioning to newly separate lives can be jarring.
Many of my California clients ask if certain special circumstances can impact the terms of their divorce settlement, such as rampant infidelity or domestic violence. Here’s how that plays out in court.

Are You Unhappy With Your Custody or Visitation Arrangement? You Might Be Able to Change It
- by Ji Y. Park
If you are divorced and have a custody or visitation order enforced by the court, the terms may not always be to your liking. And though it is true that you must adhere to the terms outlined in the order, many people don’t know that it’s possible to request a change in those terms.

How Does the New Tax Plan Affect Those Who Pay Alimony? Losing the Deduction is Set to Have Dramatic Impact
- by Ji Y. Park
The new tax bill was signed into law recently, and with it comes a slew of new changes that impact virtually everyone. Some tax experts have talked about how many of the deductions that have been set for years will be going away. Unfortunately, included in that category is the tax deduction for alimony payments.

Confused About How Prenups Affect Real Property and Other Assets? Weigh The Facts.
- by Ji Y. Park
More and more couples these days are entering into prenups, but few couples actually should get or need prenups. The media hype surrounding prenups has made it so that everyone now thinks they need a prenup when they actually do not.
However, there are cases in which one spouse wants to protect real property or other assets acquired before the marriage, or wants a different arrangement on how to pool these assets after marriage. In these cases, before committing to a prenup, it’s important to understand how they work.
Inspired by client questions, here are important facts to know about prenups.

Mediation Works to Couple’s Advantage in Spousal Support Matter
- by Ji Y. Park
In my last blog, I discussed how a custody dispute could have been better handled through mediation. Now let’s take a look at how mediations can work to a couple’s advantage in a real-life spousal support matter.

Exes May Be Better Off With Mediation vs. Litigation In Family Law Matters
- by Ji Y. Park
Although I am a longtime litigator, in my opinion mediating a family law matter is often the better option in today’s family law environment. Here are some reasons why:

Have you Braced for Impact? Unexpected Expenses After a Divorce
- by Ji Y. Park
Divorces, while occasionally amicable, are most often difficult experiences that can inflict a heavy emotional toll. While many people are expecting to go through all of that, few anticipate the additional unexpected costs from a divorce that go beyond the division of property, alimony, child support and other expenses we usually associate with it.